My Diary no more

03:31 pm - Flickr

This is a test post from , a fancy photo sharing thing.

02:21 am - Nice picture...

R u shocked?


http://www.livejournal.com/misc/mogupic.bml?size=500

01:37 am - Foundation of any relationship

What is the foundation of any kinship, friendship or romance relationship?

LOVE?
COMMUNICATION?
TRUST?

I feel that while all these are important, they are not equal.

With sufficient love, lovers can be blind to obvious faults or compromise on unreasonable situations. With enough love, both parties can sink into comfortable dependancy on each other, to forgive and forget, to persist even if suffering.

What about communication, i feel it is over-rated. Communication is not about talking, its not even about listerning, its more than even understand and being understood. What is enough quantity? Who grade the quality? Is it "THE THING" to make or break the relationship?

I feel that it must be trust. Total, complete, unconditional trust. In life, there are ups and downs. Something happens, somethings do not. On certain day, you communicate more and your loving mood is stronger than other day where you may not be the best communicator and you are not exactly in a "loving" mode. Then again, if the parties involved operate on a common understanding of the same kind of "Trust". I feel that the relationship is built truly on stable foundation.

To me, trust is everything. Even if the world turn its back on me but if someone out there still believe in me. Its enough for me to conquer any kind of difficulties and challenges with courage. However, i also believe there is trust or mistrust. No such thing as partial trust, situational trust or selective trust. Is trust like respect? Is it earned though consistent honesty? If you lose trust, can you earn it back?

I dun noe, i dun have answers for all questions. Maybe, asking the right questions now is more helpful than getting the answers.

Current Mood: moody

12:05 am

Wow, just realised i haven't post anything for 1 year + 3 days already. whew...

okie.. maybe i should get back into the habit of blogging. :P (starting tml)

12:30 am - #1888

11:14 pm - Sherk 3 - My fave part :)

Pinocchio fidgeted," Well...it wouldn't be inaccurate to assume that I couldn't exactly not say that that is or isn't almost partially incorrect," he tried.

"So, you do know where he is!" cried Charming

"On the contrart," said Pinocchio, gaining confidence. " I'm possibly, more or less, not defintely rejecting the idea that in no way, with any amount of uncertainity that...."

"Stop it!" shouted Charming.

"......I undeniably do or do not know where he shouldn't probably be." concluded Pinocchio, " If that indeed wasn't where he isn't .......

Current Mood: excited

03:56 pm - Handphone stolen.

Due to my lost phone and my lack of backup,

i have lost numerous contacts, do drop me your contacts if u wan to keep in contact. :)

Thanks in advance

12:01 am - By Arnold Glasow

If you think you're tops, you won't do much climbing.

12:09 am - Ambition

Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds.

(Thomas D English)

08:01 am - Be the Best You can Be

It is not until pain exceeds fear that we risk change.

Current Mood: cold

01:44 am - Life is a gift, Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And fulfill it.

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01:26 am - AJ STORY

01:45 am - nicked from swim78

Self Appraisal....

A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and
pulled it over to the telephone.

He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the
phone and proceeded to punch in seven digits.

The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:

The boy asked, "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?

The woman replied, "I already have someone to cut my lawn."

"Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts
your lawn now." replied boy.

The woman responded that she was very satisfied with the person who was
presently cutting her lawn.

The little boy found more perseverance and offered,"Lady, I'll even
sweep your curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will have the
prettiest lawn in all of North Palm beach,Florida."

Again the woman answered in the negative. With a smile on his face, the
little boy replaced the receiver.

The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy
and said, "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and
would like to offer you a job."

The little boy replied,"No thanks, I was just checking my performance
and the job I already have.I am the one who is working for that lady,

I was talking to !"

Are we also so sure about our self-appraisal.....???

11:13 pm - nicked from esland. :P

02:25 am - If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

 The ten rules for being human

1. You will receive a body.
2. You will be presented with lessons.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
4. Lessons are repeated until learned
5. Learning does not end.
6. "There" is no better than "here"
7. Others are only mirrors of you
8. What you make of your life is up to you.
9. All the anwers lie inside of you.
10. You will forget all of this at birth.

Author: Dr, Cherie Carter-Scott

02:54 am - Time is running...

hmmm...... :o)

02:56 am - Charlie Angels!

05:35 am - copied from sebby

So fun I wanna join in! 

The rules are simple. 

If you want to date the person who posts this, post a comment saying "I'm yours."

 If you just want to sleep with the person and stay friends, post a comment that says "I'd hit it." 

Oh, yeah, comments are screened.

10:56 am - NY

argh,,,, okie, i know i havent update for a long time. ah_james, this post  is squeeze in for u. i try to a longer post soon..:P

09:20 am - NEW YORK

Now: Changi Airport Terminal 1
1015 Cathay Pacific
1345 transit at Hongkong, 
2130 Destination New York.

Be back Next Sunday 11/06/06. Til then, take care, everybody. :)