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Feb. 10th, 2010

12:06 am - Enjoyable and tiring evening.

Specially thanks to Wai Kit for your invitation and your amazing performance tonight.

Edward VII Hall Chinese Drama 09/10: Me2 VS He2 (我和我和他和他)
Location:UCC, NUS
Time:8:00PM Tuesday, February 9th

Current Mood: [mood icon] cranky

Dec. 4th, 2009

01:13 am - Quote of the day

Thinking is negative, Doing is positive.

Jul. 9th, 2009

03:31 pm - Flickr

This is a test post from flickr, a fancy photo sharing thing.

Nov. 8th, 2008

01:37 am - Foundation of any relationship

What is the foundation of any kinship, friendship or romance relationship?

LOVE?
COMMUNICATION?
TRUST?

I feel that while all these are important, they are not equal.

With sufficient love, lovers can be blind to obvious faults or compromise on unreasonable situations. With enough love, both parties can sink into comfortable dependancy on each other, to forgive and forget, to persist even if suffering.

What about communication, i feel it is over-rated. Communication is not about talking, its not even about listerning, its more than even understand and being understood. What is enough quantity? Who grade the quality? Is it "THE THING" to make or break the relationship?

I feel that it must be trust. Total, complete, unconditional trust. In life, there are ups and downs. Something happens, somethings do not. On certain day, you communicate more and your loving mood is stronger than other day where you may not be the best communicator and you are not exactly in a "loving" mode. Then again, if the parties involved operate on a common understanding of the same kind of "Trust". I feel that the relationship is built truly on stable foundation.

To me, trust is everything. Even if the world turn its back on me but if someone out there still believe in me. Its enough for me to conquer any kind of difficulties and challenges with courage. However, i also believe there is trust or mistrust. No such thing as partial trust, situational trust or selective trust. Is trust like respect? Is it earned though consistent honesty? If you lose trust, can you earn it back?

I dun noe, i dun have answers for all questions. Maybe, asking the right questions now is more helpful than getting the answers.

Current Mood: [mood icon] moody

Oct. 12th, 2008

12:05 am

Wow, just realised i haven't post anything for 1 year + 3 days already. whew...

okie.. maybe i should get back into the habit of blogging. :P (starting tml)

Oct. 9th, 2007

Jun. 23rd, 2007

11:14 pm - Sherk 3 - My fave part :)

Pinocchio fidgeted," Well...it wouldn't be inaccurate to assume that I couldn't exactly not say that that is or isn't almost partially incorrect," he tried.

"So, you do know where he is!" cried Charming

"On the contrart," said Pinocchio, gaining confidence. " I'm possibly, more or less, not defintely rejecting the idea that in no way, with any amount of uncertainity that...."

"Stop it!" shouted Charming.

"......I undeniably do or do not know where he shouldn't probably be." concluded Pinocchio, " If that indeed wasn't where he isn't .......

Current Mood: [mood icon] excited

Mar. 27th, 2007

03:56 pm - Handphone stolen.

Due to my lost phone and my lack of backup,

i have lost numerous contacts, do drop me your contacts if u wan to keep in contact. :)

Thanks in advance

Jan. 30th, 2007

12:01 am - By Arnold Glasow

If you think you're tops, you won't do much climbing.

Jan. 12th, 2007

12:09 am - Ambition

Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds.

(Thomas D English)

Dec. 12th, 2006

08:01 am - Be the Best You can Be

It is not until pain exceeds fear that we risk change.

Current Mood: [mood icon] cold

Oct. 20th, 2006

01:44 am - Life is a gift, Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And fulfill it.

Read more... if u want short story )
Life Is A Gift
Today before you think of saying an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.
Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around.

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Oct. 3rd, 2006

01:45 am - nicked from swim78

Self Appraisal....

A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and
pulled it over to the telephone.

He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the
phone and proceeded to punch in seven digits.

The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:

The boy asked, "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?

The woman replied, "I already have someone to cut my lawn."

"Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts
your lawn now." replied boy.

The woman responded that she was very satisfied with the person who was
presently cutting her lawn.

The little boy found more perseverance and offered,"Lady, I'll even
sweep your curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will have the
prettiest lawn in all of North Palm beach,Florida."

Again the woman answered in the negative. With a smile on his face, the
little boy replaced the receiver.

The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy
and said, "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and
would like to offer you a job."

The little boy replied,"No thanks, I was just checking my performance
and the job I already have.I am the one who is working for that lady,

I was talking to !"

Are we also so sure about our self-appraisal.....???

Oct. 2nd, 2006

11:13 pm - nicked from esland. :P

What will your Funeral be like?

by rashock
Username
You will die by: Terrible animal attack while you were out hiking in the mountains. Seemed that you made good animal food, definately a closed casket.
Death Date: January 11, 2060
Number attending your funeral? 105
How much will you leave to friends and family? $2,171,366
okie... that seem pretty decent. Just need to get extra insurance the day i decided to go hiking in the mountains. :P

Sep. 4th, 2006

02:25 am - If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

 The ten rules for being human

1. You will receive a body.
2. You will be presented with lessons.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
4. Lessons are repeated until learned
5. Learning does not end.
6. "There" is no better than "here"
7. Others are only mirrors of you
8. What you make of your life is up to you.
9. All the anwers lie inside of you.
10. You will forget all of this at birth.

Author: Dr, Cherie Carter-Scott

Jul. 24th, 2006

Jul. 20th, 2006

Jul. 2nd, 2006

05:35 am - copied from sebby

So fun I wanna join in! 

The rules are simple. 

If you want to date the person who posts this, post a comment saying "I'm yours."

 If you just want to sleep with the person and stay friends, post a comment that says "I'd hit it." 

Oh, yeah, comments are screened.

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